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Two Wolves: A Cherokee Proverb - Veterans Outreach Ministries
15 Sep
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Two Wolves: A Cherokee Proverb

An old Cherokee shared this story with his grandson: My son, there is a battle between two wolves inside us all. One is EVIL. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego. The other is GOOD. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, generosity, empathy and truth. The grandson thought about this for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf wins?” And the old Cherokee simply replied… “The one you feed”.

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Are You A Fool? - Veterans Outreach Ministries
12 Sep
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Are You A Fool?

by Debbie DiVirgilio

Become wise by walking with the wise; hang out with fools and watch your life fall to pieces.
~Proverbs 13:20 (MSG)

As I read this verse, I had to chuckle. I don’t believe there is anyone of us that would like to be or would choose to be called a fool. But, how often do we unconsciously choose to do so?
This verse confirms for us what our parents always told us as we were growing up – that those that we “hung out with” would influence us, either for our benefit or our detriment. Unfortunately, most of the time when we were hearing this, it was not because we were spending time with wise people. And, all too often, we discovered that when we were around people who were not wise, our lives did indeed “fall apart.”

While we might think that we have grown beyond this verse as adults, as nonprofit or ministry leaders, we haven’t. The verse still applies to our lives.

Think about:

  • Where do you get your info and resources?
  • Who do you go to for advice?
  • Who do you spend recreational time with?
  • What are you reading and putting into your mind?

We can become wise by ensuring that we are putting the right information in our minds, that we are going to the right people for guidance and direction, that we read wise material, engage in wise habits and that we spend time with positive people. Please know that I am not saying to isolate yourself and never interact with non-believers (how would we ever live out the Great Commission?) but instead, we need to be filled with wisdom so that we are equipped and ready to be wise for others.

So, what steps do you need to take toward wisdom today? Perhaps you need to begin by ensuring you are getting information and resources from sources that you can trust…from those whose values align with yours. Perhaps you need to begin by seeking advice from wise people. Or perhaps you need to look at your recreational and “down time” activities.

But, you may ask, how can I really know if someone is wise? The answer is to look at the fruit in their lives. In other words, what is their life producing? Scripture tells us we are known by our fruit, and wise fruit cannot grow in environments where it is not nurtured. Take time today to nurture the fruit of wisdom in your life. Sweet Blessings to You, My Friend.

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Shrimp Puttanesca Recipe - Veterans Outreach Ministries
09 Sep
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Recipe: Shrimp Puttanesca

Shrimp Puttanesca

MAKES:
4 Servings

TOTAL TIME:
30 minutes

INGREDIENTS:

  • 2 tablespoons olive oil, divided
  • 1 pound uncooked shrimp, prepped
  • 1 tsp crushed red pepper flakes, divided
  • 1/4 tsp salt
  • 1 small onion, chopped
  • 2 to 3 anchovy fillets, finely chopped
  • 3 garlic cloves, minced
  • 2 cups grape or cherry tomatoes
  • 1/2 cup dry white wine or vegetable broth
  • 1/3 cup pitted Greek olives, coarsely chopped
  • 2 tsp drained capers
  • Sugar to taste
  • Chopped fresh Italian parsley
  • Hot cooked spaghetti, optional

INSTRUCTIONS:

  1. In a large skillet, heat 1 tablespoon oil; saute shrimp with 1/2 teaspoon pepper flakes until shrimp turn pink, 2-3 minutes. Stir in salt; remove from pan.
  2. In same pan, heat remaining oil over medium heat; saute onion until tender, about 2 minutes. Add anchovies, garlic and remaining pepper flakes; cook and stir until fragrant, about 1 minute. Stir in tomatoes, wine, olives and capers; bring to a boil. Reduce heat; simmer, uncovered, until tomatoes are softened and mixture is thickened, 8-10 min.
  3. Stir in shrimp. Add sugar to taste; sprinkle with parsley. If desired, serve with spaghetti.

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Grunge Muffin Designs - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
18 Aug
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Business of the Quarter – Grunge Muffin Designs

Grunge Muffin Designs is an award-winning design studio that has been in operation since 2015 pre-dominantly serving the tri-state area of Delaware, Maryland, and Pennsylvania. Husband and wife duo Brandon & Meredith Boas co-own the studio together.

They opened their business after completing complimentary creative bachelor degrees in Simulation & Digital Entertainment and Integrated Arts respectively from the University of Baltimore. These degrees cover both the technical side and design side of just about any creative service a client could be looking for.

Both Brandon and Meredith have family members who’ve served in the military including parents and grandparents. They love this country, and have a great appreciation for the men and women who serve it. As such, their studio Grunge Muffin Designs does offer special rates for veterans and military personnel as well as non-profit organizations.

If you’re seeking creative services for yourself or a business/organization you know – they’d love to receive your referral. They give free estimates as well as open and honest feedback and project assessments. If they truly don’t feel that they’re the team for you then they’ll be upfront about it, and they’ll help get you pointed in the right direction. They don’t believe in high pressure sales but they DO believe in making long-lasting relationships with their clients.

Making sure that their clients have effective and attractive creative marketing pieces is very important to them and they strive to make sure the brands they create are unique and versatile. Ideally their clients’ brands will fit in with their respective industries but then stand out as exemplary.

Before contacting them, take a look at the “Projects” section of their website and review their past client projects. If their creative style seems like a good match for you then give them a call or send them an email to set up an initial consultation where they can learn more about your project needs.

They look forward to connecting with you!

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Collin J. Hague - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
14 Aug
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Male Veteran of the Quarter – Collin J. Hague

Article Written by Male Veteran of the Quarter Collin J. Hague

Although not a Captain in military rank, Captain Collin J. Hague, is in the aviation world as an EMS (Emergency Medical Service) helicopter pilot.

Collin enlisted in the United States Navy in January, 2004, graduating from Great Lakes basic training as an Airman First Class in March of the same year. From there he was stationed at Naval Air Station, Pensacola, in the Florida panhandle, where he attended advanced training as an Aircraft Ordnanceman. After graduation from “Bomb School” he was stationed at Fallon Naval Air Station, Nevada in support of the Top Gun School for Naval Aviators. The vast desert bombing range provides relative closeness to the Pacific naval bases, and a remote location far away from civilian populations for obvious safety reasons. Airman Hague’s responsibilities were to load the practice warheads and machine gun ammunitions on the FA-18 Hornets in preparation for simulated air combat and bombing missions.

Newly promoted Petty Officer 3rd class Hague completed his tour at Fallon, in March 2006, and was then stationed at San Diego Naval Base, California, aboard the U.S.S. Boxer, part of the Pacific West fleet in support of the United States Marine Corp’s 15th Marine Expeditionary Unit (MEU) at Camp Pendleton, California. These MEU’s consist of approximately 3,000 Marines, three LCAC’s (Landing Craft, Air Cushion) hovercraft, Cobra attack helicopters, several Harrier AV-8B jump jets, and CH-53 Sea Stallion transport helicopters.

The U.S.S. Boxer’s mission is to provide transportation and support for the 15th MEU to anywhere in the world. In June, 2006, Petty Officer Hague was deployed to the Persian Gulf in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. Their mission was to pick up the 15th MEU from Camp Pendleton, about 50 miles north of San Diego, and transport the unit to the Persian Gulf. While deployed, Petty Officer 3rd Class Hague was promoted to Petty Officer 2nd Class. In July, 2006, the USS Boxer anchored off the coast of Kuwait while the 15th MEU deployed all their equipment and personnel on their mission in country. From there, the U.S.S. Boxer weighed anchor and posted security in the Persian Gulf until the MEU was ready to return home in March of 2007.

After serving four years in the United States Navy and being honorably discharged as a Petty Officer 2nd Class, Collin earned his Bachelors of Science degree in Aviation Management, and has continued his education pursuing a Master’s Degree in Human Factors from Embry Riddle Aeronautical University.

While accumulating 1000’s of hours as a helicopter pilot, Collin has received many aviation certifications such as Certified Flight Instructor, Commercial Instrument Rating, and Airline Transport Pilot, for both fixed wing aircraft, and helicopters. He is currently a Qualifying Instructor Pilot working for Air Methods, the largest Medevac Company in the United States, where he certifies fellow pilots for required simulator training and check rides in the pilot’s designated helicopter. Collin currently pilots the Airbus H-135 helicopter, and in August of this year will assume the position of Pilot Supervisor for Air Methods, flying the EMS helicopter at Christiana Care’s Level 1 Trauma Center.

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Emma Mullen - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
10 Aug
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Female Veteran of the Quarter – Emma Mullen

Veteran Article Written by Female Veteran of the Quarter Emma Mullen

Born: Christiana Hospital, April 15, 1988
Hometown: Newark, DE moved a lot as my father was in the USMC so I also lived in West Harrison, NY, Quantico, VA and Wilmington, DE
Parents: Gail Snyder married to GySgt David Snyder and Michael Hartman married to Diane Hartman
Siblings: David Snyder (Galion, OH), Derek Snyder (Galion, OH), Darcey Snyder (Wilmington, DE), Michael Hartman (Pennsville, NJ) and April Hartman (Pennsville, NJ)
Education: Delaware Military Academy for high-school, an all NJROTC school in Wilmington, DE graduated in 2006.
Married: 2019 to Gregory Kaczmarczyk, Jr. and have 1 beautiful daughter.

Military History

Joined the USMC reserves in 2006, went to bootcamp at Parris Island, SC in July. Went to Camp Geiger for Marine Combat Training in October followed by specialized training in Twenty Nine Palms, CA where radio, linesman and computer processing specialties are trained. First duty station was Willow Grove, PA where she set up Forward operating Bases for training and pre-deployment communications.

Performed training for urban desert operations in Yuma, AZ followed by preparing for deployment in Camp Pendleton, CA. Deployed to Al Asad, Iraq for a 7 month deployment where she set up networks for convoys and forward operating bases. Returned to Willow Grove, PA and then moved to joint base Ft. Dix, NJ for her remaining time in the Marine Corps.

Work History

2018-Present Weyrich, Cronin and Sorra CPA – Administrative Assistant
2016-2018 Comcast – Customer Service Representative
2010-2016 David’s Bridal – Assistant Service Manager
2009-2010 Merchandiser with an independent company
2004-2009 Vince’s Sports Center – Customer Service Representative

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Reflection... Do You See It? - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
06 Aug
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Reflection… Do You See It?

By: Rebecca Rondone
Owner of Pura Vida Yoga & Physical Training

Most often revealing pieces of ourselves we want to run away from. It hurts and we push away. Resistance is habitual. How can new pathways to find freedom be created in your life? The confusion, pain, and or discomfort is showing us something. Lean in. It is often a sign that something is ready to be released so that you can begin.

Savasana (shah-VAH-sah-nah or shih-VAH-snah) is the final resting pose at the end of almost every yoga practice. Savasana, quite literally, means “Corpse Pose” – which to some does not exactly bring such peaceful images to mind, does it?

The reason is that the art of relaxation is harder than it looks. The essence of Savasana is to relax with attention, that is, to remain conscious and alert while still being at ease. Remaining aware while relaxing can help you begin to notice and release long-held tensions in your body and mind.

Cultivating the art of Savasana is more valuable than ever. Our society tends to place greater value on speed and productivity; learning how to do nothing is a skill that can help you become more productive when you need to be.

Savasana helps us learn how to completely surrender, stop fighting the clock, and make space for peace and harmony to fill the soul. Savasana is refreshing Gods Creation and returning with heightened functionality.

There are actually three stages of Savasana:

Stage 1 is allowing the body to find relaxation.
Stage 2 is when Savasana actually begins.
Stage 3, the final state of Savasana, occurs when the ego and mind let go.

How to Meditate on Scripture:

  • Start with prayer and focus your mind upon God.
  • Next, choose a passage of scripture.
  • Read the passage numerous times.
  • Re-read parts that may be confusing or that specifically speak to you at the moment.
  • Consider, ponder, and seek to understand the scripture.

It is a practice in which distracting thoughts and feelings are not ignored but are rather acknowledged and observed without judgment as they arise to create a detachment from them and gain insight and awareness.

When the mind becomes free from agitation, is calm, and at peace the benefits are manifold. It is an essential practice for mental hygiene. A clarity of perception, improvement in communication, blossoming of skills and talents, an unshakable inner strength, healing, the ability to connect to an inner source, relaxation, and rejuvenation, are all a natural results of meditating regularly. In today’s world where stress catches on faster than the eye can see or the mind can perceive, meditation is no more a luxury. It is a necessity.

Contraindications. People who are not advised to lie on back should avoid this pose. An alternative would be to sit up supported against the wall or a chair. One who is suffering with severe acidity may hurt himself/herself to lying on the back because food pipe may displease your body system.

For a mindful few minutes on the mat, floor, or chair, try these techniques.

  • Practice progressive relaxation.
  • Do some breath counting (Sama Vritti).
  • Grab a block.
  • Get comfy.
  • Practice “witnessing.”
  • Let your body feel heavy.
  • Breathe out for longer than you breathe in.

To exit the pose, first begin to deepen your breath. Bringing gentle movement and awareness back to your body, wiggling your fingers and toes.

What does the Bible say about Meditation? Scripture frequently mentions meditation and meditating on the teachings and laws of God. It is important that we think deeply and reflect on what we believe and our actions. Without this introspection, we can forget the importance of living righteously and following the lessons of the Bible.

Philippians 4:8

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable — if anything is excellent or praiseworthy — think about such things.

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Crafting: The Stress-Relieving Hobby You May Have Forgotten - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
02 Aug
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Crafting: The Stress-Relieving Hobby You May Have Forgotten

By Sheila Reist

The pandemic is beginning to lift, but during the height of it I had experienced a lot of negative feelings to a degree I hadn’t before. I struggled with anxiety about the pandemic and current events, fear of what the future would bring, loneliness from missed time with family and friends, and feelings of intense sadness as time progressed and nothing seemed to be looking up.

At some point I realized that I had to make what I could of the situation and that maybe taking a break from television and the internet would be more fulfilling. Fortunately, I had been encouraged to keep myself occupied when I was growing up, so I’d already had a background in crafting – but even for those that haven’t tried it, there are so many affordable kits available it’s pretty easy to get into.

A lot of creative things I usually enjoy, like drawing and painting, are more open-ended and felt overwhelming at the time. After doing some research, I came across a bunch of different kits on Amazon and found one that I thought I’d really enjoy which was a dollhouse miniatures kit. The dollhouse kit appealed to me because I liked them growing up, but there are so many styles of miniatures, that though I thought of them as very feminine, they really run the gamut of interests! Like the idea of a tiny restaurant, barn, car, or museum? There’s almost certainly a miniature kit for it.

What I loved about the kits was they really hit that sweet spot of having something to do, but without having to make any big decisions which I found to be very stress-relieving. There are always directions to follow and with kits, they usually come with everything you need so you don’t have to worry about having to purchase a bunch of tools, wood, or other knick-knacks (just be sure to check you don’t need to order glue or tweezers for instance).

Miniature crafting has been a huge relief to me, and I think it can be worth the try for anyone looking to occupy themselves. It’s relatively low cost and can be made cheaper by using materials you already have laying around; it’s screen-free so you can make some time for yourself that’s away from news, social media, and television; and most of all it’s just so satisfying. Each little item that’s completed comes with its own feeling of success – of something having been accomplished. These little lily pads of peace and personal satisfaction helped me through the harder parts of the pandemic, and will be something I rely on in the future when I’m feeling stressed.

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Flag Etiquette - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
29 Jul
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Flag Etiquette

The U.S. Flag Code formalizes and unifies the traditional ways in which we give respect to the flag. This is a list of do’s.

When displaying the flag, DO these:

  • Display the U.S. flag from sunrise to sunset on buildings and stationary flagstaffs in the open. The flag may be displayed 24/7 if properly illuminated during the darkness.
  • When placed on a single staff or lanyard, place the U.S. Flag above all other flags.
  • When flags are displayed in a row, the U.S. flag goes to the observer’s left. Flags of other nations are flown at same height. State and local flags are flown lower.
  • When used during a marching ceremony the U.S. Flag will be to the observer’s left.
  • On Memorial Day it is flown at half-staff until noon and then raised.
  • When flown at half-staff, should be first hoisted to the peak for an instant and then lowered to the half-staff position. The flag should be again raised to the peak before it is lowered for the day.
  • When the flag is displayed over the middle of the street, it should be suspended vertically with the union to the north in an east and west street or to the east in a north and south street.
  • When placed on a podium the flag should be placed on the speaker’s right. Other flags should be to the left.
  • When displayed either horizontally or vertically against a wall, the union should be uppermost and to the flag’s own right.
  • When displayed in a window it should be displayed in the same way — with the union or blue field to the left of the observer.
  • When the flag is displayed on a car, the staff shall be fixed firmly to the chassis.
  • When the flag is used to cover a casket, it should be so placed that the union is at the head and over the left shoulder. The flag should not be lowered into the grave or allowed to touch the ground.

More info from… www.military.com

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Concerns About New Army Combat Physical Fitness Test - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
25 Jul
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Concerns About New Army Combat Physical Fitness Test

By Lishamarie Hunter

All things change but are all changes good for everybody? The current Army Physical Fitness Test (APFT) has measured the fitness of individual soldiers since 1980. It consists of three simple events. Soldiers must do as many sit-ups and push-ups as they can in two minutes each, with a brief rest in between, and then complete a two-mile run as quickly as possible.

The APFT was designed to measure and incentivize individual fitness by testing muscular endurance and cardio fitness. Scoring scales differ by gender (except for sit-ups) and are graduated for age. They are designed so that any highly motivated soldier, with a substantial amount of training and effort, can excel on the test. This has been a point of pride for many troops and their leaders. Soldiers must take the test twice a year and their scores appear on their fitness reports, thus factoring into any assessments for promotion. This allowed for fair considerations for promotions and schools.

The new ACPFT includes six events and must be completed within 50 minutes in the following order: Deadlift between 120 and 420 pounds (more weight equals better score) and complete three repetitions in five minutes, standing power throw (throw a 10-pound medicine ball backwards over your head and complete one practice and two record throws in three minutes, with the longest record throw counting), hand release push-ups (as many as possible in three minutes, lifting hands off the ground between each repetition), sprint-drag-carry (five repetitions of a 25-meter out-and-back shuttle run in four minutes), leg tuck abdominals or plank (starting from a dead hang on a pull-up bar, lift knees to elbows as many times as possible in two minutes or plank 2-4 minutes), then complete a two-mile run on a flat surface in under 20 minutes.

After a year-long field test of the program the data again raises questions about whether the Army’s attempt to create a more physically fit force is creating barriers to success for women. Internal Army figures from April show 44% of women failed the ACFT, compared to 7% of men since Oct. 1. “Female soldiers continually score lower than male counterparts in all events” according to a United States Army Forces Command briefing obtained by military.com (May, 2021).

Five Concerns with the ACPFT

  1. It is Too Complicated. Every unit in the Army, no matter how small or large, will be required to train for and administer this elaborate test. The time required to regularly train for it will likely exceed the amount of time currently allocated for unit or individual physical fitness — which means it will come at the expense of other, potentially far more important, combat training tasks. Simply administering the test will require a large chunk of unit time at least twice, if not more, each year.
  2. It Requires Too Much Specialized Equipment. The new test requires a staggering amount of cumbersome technical equipment. While the Army gamely argues that future service budgets will provide funds for thousands of new deadlift weight sets, pull-up stations, kettle balls, sleds, and medicine balls, the overhead investment in the new test is unfathomable. It’s not enough to have a few sets of the equipment for testing time — every soldier must have access this specialized gear several times a week, if not every day, for proper training. The Army estimates that this equipment will cost around $20 million. Not to mention the logistical challenges distributing it to troops, in over 120countries and at hundreds if not thousands of posts, camps, and stations.
  3. It Doesn’t Access Well Across the Army. The Army is a massive organization of more than one million active and reserve soldiers who are literally spread all around the world. While active-duty Army units based on large posts may eventually be able to deal with the twin challenges of complexity and specialized equipment. What doe the implementation of this look like to more than 540,000 soldiers in the Army Reserve and the Army National Guard. How many of their 39 annual training days will be devoted to simply taking the test, much less preparing for it? And, since many soldiers in the reserve component live far away from where they drill, where will they find the specialized equipment for regular training? Not every gym in America has a 10-pound medicine ball let alone even a gym located nearby. What about the outliers, Army recruiters, small ROTC detachments, and pockets of soldiers scattered across civilian graduate programs, acquisition offices, joint headquarters and U.S. embassies, not to mention the thousands of soldiers forward-deployed in austere environments.
  4. It Might Increase Injury Rates. We’ve heard that early pilots of the new test have reduced injury rates. Yet there are at least two good reasons to suspect that injury rates will not significantly decline — and might even increase — when it becomes mandatory for all soldiers. Improper training always leads to injuries. Many of the events of the new PT test are complex. They will require well-trained fitness coaches to oversee proper and safe practice. Second, the apparent standards for maxing the new test, are far beyond what even fit soldiers may be able to strive for. It encourages soldiers to either over-train in pursuit of the maximum score, which will likely cause serious injuries, or perhaps abandon the maximum and do only what is necessary for the minimum score, which results in less fit soldiers.
  5. It Tries To Do Too Much. The ACFT tries to meld individual and unit combat fitness standards into a single test. But why that is necessary. Unit PT is used to build esprit de corp, how is that goal achieved when the females within the unit are failing at much higher rates than their male counterparts. This issue breed resentment within an unit that already feels that females do not belong or can’t pull their own weight. No one disputes that Army units should be as physically prepared for combat. That has always been the purpose of unit physical standards, not individual fitness standards. It makes far more sense for unit commanders to determine what physical standards make their soldiers combat ready, rather than having the Army staff determine that for them. An realistic universal standard for an individual fitness standard makes more sense (May, 2012).

If Army leaders truly believe that the existing PT test cannot provide a sufficient baseline of individual fitness, they need to go back to the drawing board and design a new test. Army leaders seem to have been so blinded by all the science involved in the test’s development that they have lost sight of what will work most effectively across an incredibly large, far-flung, and diverse organization. If Army leaders truly feel that the current PT test is not adequate for the demands of the 21st century, they need to find a far better solution. Bring back the question is all change good change for everyone?

References

  • David Barno & Nora Bensahel, Dumb and Dumber: THE ARMY’S NEW PT TEST SPECIAL SERIES – STRATEGIC OUTPOST OCTOBER 16, 2018, Retrieved; May 30,2021.
  • Steve Beynon, May, 10, 2021, Nearly Half of Female Soldiers Still Failing New Army Fitness Test, While Males Pass Easily, Military.com, Retrieved; May 30, 2021.
  • Sean Kimmons, July 18,2018, Army Combat Fitness Test set to become new PT test of record in late 2020, Army News Service. Retrieved; May 30,2021.

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