Article By: Dee Jones, President of Light 2 World, Inc.
Spirituality can be a confusing concept for anyone, especially children. How does one foster a sense of faith in a child with disabilities? In our family, spectrum-related disorders, oppositional defiance, and developmental disfunction are challenges we face daily. What resources can help with such daunting issues? Hope is here! Let us explore a few ideas that foster faith in the hearts of special children. A good foundation begins with biblical truth. God’s Word tells us that each child is fearfully and wonderfully made (Ps. 139).
Jesus also invited little children to come to him unhindered, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 19:14). Yes, all children are quite valuable to God.
If you are a parent of a child with special needs; there will be moments of doubt and even frustration. So, remember Proverbs 22:6, which tells us to, “train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it.” This verse does not promise a perfect life or a life free from pain. “It means regardless of the disability; the Lord still expects parents to help our children discover their personal life path.” With God’s help, and hard work on our part, we can help our children live a life filled with hope and purpose.
One author offered the following guidance:
- God has a plan for our children [Jeremiah 29:11].
- We’re in their life to help them find God’s plan for their lives.
- God’s principles will guide us.
- It takes a community. “And though it may be a lifetime of parenting, we can obey God and trust Him with the outcome of our children.”
- You are not alone, take care of yourself, and seek help from a faith community before becoming overwhelmed.
Note a few final tips for leading your child to faith in Christ. Know your child and their level of cognitive development. Begin by teaching your child these truths:
- God always keeps His promises.
- God gives us rules that we must obey.
- Even if Mommy or Daddy can’t see what you are doing, God sees it.
- God disciplines us because He loves us.
- Their sin and need for a Savior.
- The significance of Jesus’ death and resurrection.
- God’s faithful presence in a believer’s life.
This is a life-long journey and your faith community Bible teacher and pastor can give you support and guidance along the way. Focus on the Family has numerous resources to assist. Don’t tackle this alone. We are encouraged to share God and share our lives with others (I Thessalonians 2:8). Pray and keep the faith!
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