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A Special Plan for your Special Child- Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
20 Jul
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A Special Plan for Your Child: An IFSP/IEP Review

By: Dee Jones, President of Light 2 World, Inc.

Another schoolyear has ended. Seeking the appropriate resources for a child with special needs can be confusing and difficult. Much planning is needed prior to the school year to facilitate success for all children, yet this is critical for the child with special needs. I am reminded of Benjamin Franklin’s quote “If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail!” Educational planning should begin before, during, and after the school year ends. Two types of educational programs come to mind regarding programs for children with special needs. The Individualized Family Service Plan (IFSP) and the Individualized Education Program or IEP.

The IFSP focuses on infants and toddlers with disabilities. “Participating in effective early intervention services supports a child’s development of positive social-emotional skills and social relationships.” We noticed deficits in our son’s development as early as nine months.

Through visits to his pediatrician and voicing our concerns, we were able to have him evaluated at Kennedy Krieger Center for Development and Learning. An IFSP was initiated by our pediatrician to address his disabilities. When an infant or toddler is suspected of having a developmental delay, a referral may be placed by the pediatrician, parent, or childcare provider.

The IFSP is a multifaceted process which includes referral, assessment and evaluation of the child, meetings, home visits, child-care visits and observations. Each case may vary depending on the child’s disabilities. The IFSP may include various phases of interventions. Our son was in the Infants and Toddlers program and the IFSP was in place until he entered Kindergarten. He had several therapists and doctors to address his deficits. He continues to receive therapies first grade. He continues to improve each year in some areas, and we are grateful for the work of his teachers and therapist.

Now that our son is in 1 st grade, there is an Individualized Education Program in place at his school. The IEP begins in Kindergarten and continues through high school or up to age 22 if the child or young adult is eligible. My niece is entering college and will continue to receive services. Much like the IFSP, a referral is required. An evaluation team will conduct a battery of assessments, there will be meetings, and a coordinator to discuss the team’s findings and resources available to you and your child.

Evaluations are conducted annually or quarterly depending on your agency or by parent’s request. An IEP team writes a report which must show that your child is eligible for services. If the parent does not agree, they can challenge the decision. The IEP meeting is scheduled by the school district and parents are contacted by the teacher or program coordinator. Each area of learning is addressed during this meeting and goals are set. Services will be offered depending on your child’s disabilities. Everyone gets a copy. I send a copy of our son’s IEP to his providers and therapist as well.

Communication is key.

A daily communication sheet from the teacher is useful to determine medication effectiveness and provide insight to your provider and/or therapist. Our son had a battery of doctors, therapists, and behavior specialists which evaluate his progress every six months. “Students are re-evaluated throughout the year as mandated by the state or at a parent’s request.” Meetings can be in person or virtual. The school nurse plays a vital role if mediation administration is required. As the year ends, work closely with your teachers and administrator to implement the best plan for your children in the approaching school year. There are summer programs to help keep your child’s skills active. Communicate with your support system at church, school, or community agency. Begin praying now for the teachers, administrators, children, and parents entering next year. Children are a blessing from the Lord.

Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.”

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Embracing the Uncomfortable - Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
13 Jul
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Embracing the Uncomfortable: The Path to Growth and Resilience

By: Rebecca Hummer of Pura Vida Yoga & Physical Training in Maryland

In a world where comfort often reigns supreme, embracing discomfort may seem counterintuitive. Yet, it’s precisely in those moments of unease and uncertainty that we often experience the most profound growth and resilience.

Embracing discomfort allows us to expand our comfort zones:

When we push ourselves outside of familiar territory, whether it’s trying a new activity, speaking up in a meeting, or confronting a fear, we create opportunities for personal growth. Each time we face discomfort head-on, we expand our capacity to handle challenging situations in the future.

Discomfort fosters adaptability:

Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, and those who are comfortable with discomfort are better equipped to navigate them. By embracing the uncomfortable, we learn to adapt to new circumstances, think creatively, and find solutions even in the most challenging situations.

It cultivates resilience:

Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks, and embracing discomfort is a powerful way to cultivate this trait. When we willingly put ourselves in uncomfortable situations, we develop the resilience to persevere in the face of adversity, knowing that we have the strength to overcome obstacles.

It fosters empathy and understanding:

Stepping outside of our comfort zones exposes us to new experiences and perspectives, fostering empathy and understanding for others. By embracing discomfort, we become more open-minded and compassionate, able to connect with people from diverse backgrounds and walks of life.

Tips for embracing discomfort:

  1. Start small: Take gradual steps outside of your comfort zone to build confidence and resilience over time.
  2. Practice mindfulness: Pay attention to your thoughts and emotions when facing discomfort, and approach them with curiosity and self-compassion.
  3. Challenge negative self-talk: Replace self-limiting beliefs with positive affirmations that empower you to embrace discomfort and grow from it.
  4. Seek support: Surround yourself with friends, family, or mentors who can offer encouragement and guidance as you navigate uncomfortable situations.
  5. Celebrate progress: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, as you push yourself to embrace discomfort and pursue personal growth.

One of my mentors used to always say “Get to Uncomfortable” that is a space where real growth happens. If you think about it, becoming a mother is a beautiful analogy in just that. The fruit or labor. Pregnancy is not an easy process. Western medicine calls it a disease. The changes and pains we go through to bring for the beautiful gift of life is necessary in order to get to the next level of motherhood.

Giving birth is manifestation in its purest form. THAT is truly what it looks like to live a life in your God mind.

You know that the process is necessary. Don’t be afraid of feeling uncomfortable feelings. Be fearful of the seasons you haven’t gotten to an uncomfortable space. Ultimately, it means you’ve stopped growing. It’s one thing to sit back and enjoy the fruits of your labor. It’s another to stop developing yourself.

Embracing discomfort is not always easy, but the rewards are undeniable. By stepping outside of our comfort zones, we unlock our full potential, cultivate resilience, and embrace the richness and complexity of life.

So, the next time you find yourself faced with discomfort, remember that it’s not something to be avoided, but rather embraced as a catalyst for growth and transformation.

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Ross S. Hunter - Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
06 Jul
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Veteran of the Quarter – SFC Ross S. Hunter

This article features SFC Ross S. Hunter

SFC Hunter joined the Army in 1984. Went to Ft Dix, NJ for basic training and then went to Ft Belvoir, VA as a Power Generation Repairer. SFC Hunter was assigned to Ft Riley, KS and then rotated to Germany. SFC Hunter deployed to Desert Storm in 1991. SFC Hunter attended BNCOC in August of 1992. After Graduation he returned to his Unit at FT Ord, CA, shortly after this the post deactivated and he was assigned to 1/8 FA in Ft Lewis, WA. In 1996 SFC Hunter was reassigned to 98th maintenance as a Platoon Sgt for the Ground Support Platoon.

Upon ETS SFC Hunter reenlisted at APG in the 85th Maintenance Battalion were he was an instructor for Power Generation Repairer Course, he help to introduce the LADS units to the Army while on active duty supporting OIF/OEF. SFC Hunter retired with 22 yrs of service in 2008, with several Army Achievement Awards and Army Accommodations medals. He is currently working for Cummins Power Generation Technology as a Level 3 power generation road technician.

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Shrimp & Grits Recipe - Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
29 Jun
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Cheesy Shrimp and Grits

INGREDIENTS:

  • 4 cups chicken or vegetable broth
  • 1 cup stone ground grits
  • 1 lb shrimp, peeled and deveined
  • 4 slices bacon
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 cup shredded cheddar cheese
  • 1/4 cup heavy cream
  • 2 green onions, sliced for garnish
  • salt and pepper to taste

INSTRUCTIONS:

  1. In a saucepan, bring the broth to a boil over high heat.
  2. Slowly whisk in the grits and reduce the heat to low, cover and simmer for 20-25 minutes, stirring occasionally until the grits are thick and creamy.
  3. While the grits are cooking, cook the diced bacon in a skillet over medium heat until crispy. remove the bacon from the skillet, reserving the bacon grease.
  4. In the same skillet, with the bacon grease, saute the shrimp and minced garlic for 2-3 minutes, or until the shrimp turns opaque and pink.
  5. Remove the shrimp from the skillet and set aside.
  6. Once the grits are cooked, stir in the shredded cheddar cheese and heavy creamy until the cheese is melted and the mixture is smooth.
  7. Fold in the crispy bacon and cooked shrimp.
  8. Garnish with sliced green onions beforeserving.

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VOM PA Branch - Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
22 Jun
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Business of the Quarter – VOM PA

John DiMeglio, a member of what was once Friendship Baptist Church in Newark, Delaware had been long praying about a way of supporting veterans. His answered prayer was to start an organization called Veterans Outreach Ministries.

John approached fellow church-goers Colin Diggs (veteran), Steve Hague, and Tom Hogate (veteran), with a request to start the organization with him and they succeeded in March 2014. Later, in July 2024, they applied to The State of Delaware for the official incorporation of Veterans Outreach Ministries and became a full-fledge 501c3 non-profit organization with the goal of helping veterans and their families.

It has been ten (10) years since that time and the VOM organization has had many outreach events, projects, and has helped many veterans in New Castle County, Delaware and Cecil County, Maryland.

The organization is now actively in the process of expanding into the Philadelphia, Chester County, and Delaware County in Pennsylvania. VOM PA will be a sister organization to VOM DE. We are excited for this opportunity to finally expand.

In these new territories John DiMeglio (at one time the President of the Delaware branch) will now be the President of the Pennsylvania branch and he is once again seeking volunteers who wish to help and support veterans, including active personnel, first responders, and their families who are suffering emotionally and physically.

Collectively, both VOM branches are seeking organizations such as churches, veteran shelters, businesses, and individual volunteers to be part of this exciting ministry while offering spiritual guidance from our Lord for help. We are also looking for those who would like to join our Board of Directors, preferably fellow veterans. There is room for seven people new people.

If you or someone you know is interested, please contact VOM PA Board President John DiMeglio by phone or text him at (610)-299-5523.

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Days to Display the US Flag- VOM Magazine - Delaware
15 Jun
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Days to Display the Flag (June-August 2024)

Holidays to Display Flag

June – August 2024

  • Flag Day – June 14
  • US Army Founded – June 14, 1775
  • Father’s Day – June 16
  • Independence Day – July 4
  • National Korean War Veterans Armistice Day – July 27
  • Korean War Ended – July 27,1953

Non-Flag Display Days

  • D-Day Allied Invasion of Europe – June 6,1944
  • Juneteenth National Independence Day – June 19
  • Summer Begins – June 20
  • Pledge of Allegiance Recognized by Congress – June 22,1942
  • G I Bill signed into law – June 22,1944
  • Korean War Began –June 25,1950
  • National Post Traumatic Stress Awareness Day – June 27
  • Post 9/11 G I Bill Signed into Law – June 30
  • U.S. Air Corps Established – July 2,1926
  • World War 1 Began – July 28,1914
  • Air Force Day – August 1
  • U.S Coast Guard Established – August 4,1790
  • Purple Heart Medal Established – August 7,1782
  • Vietnam War Begins – August 7,1964
  • Japan Surrendered Ending WWII – August 14,1945
  • National Navajo Code Talkers Day – August 14
  • National Airborne Day – August 16
  • National Aviation Day – August 19
  • Womens Equality Day – August 26

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Saucy Bacon Wrapped Pork Tenderloin - Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
08 Jun
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Recipe – Saucy Bacon Wrapped Pork Tenderloin

Recipe by TastefullySimple.com

MAKES: 6 Servings
TOTAL TIME: 35 min

INGREDIENTS:

  • 1/3 cup Vidalia® Onion Dressing
  • 1/4 cup Smoky Bacon BBQ Sauce
  • 1.5 pounds pork tenderloin, cut into 6 pieces
  • 1.5 teaspoons Ultimate Steak™ Seasoning
  • 6 bacon slices, partially cooked

INSTRUCTIONS:

  1. Prepare grill to medium heat. In small bowl, combine Vidalia Onion Dressing and Smoky Bacon BBQ Sauce; set aside.
  2. Season pork with Ultimate Steak Seasoning and wrap with bacon.
  3. Place pork on grill. Grill, turning occasionally and brushing with sauce, until internal temperature reaches 155°F on an instant-read food thermometer, about 14-16 minutes. Serve drizzle with any remaining sauce.
  4. Serve with Parmesan Noodles.

Wine Pairing: Cabernet Sauvignon

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What Makes You Tic? - Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
01 Jun
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What Makes You Tic?

By: Dee Jones, President of Light 2 World, Inc.

One day, I saw my 5-year-old son moving his lips in an awkward spasm-like motion. These muscular spasms continued for a few months. I asked him, “why are you moving your mouth like that?” He did not explain the reason for this behavior, and he could not control it. The spasms decreased but did not go away. I mentioned this to a pediatrician, and no medication or treatment was prescribed. I was told “we will keep an eye on this”. Over a year or so, the spasms decreased, then finally went away. Occasionally, there may be other repetitive lip movements, lip or finger picking habits which my son will repeat when he is anxious or upset. After seeing a specialist, it was discovered that my son does suffer from anxiety and insomnia. I learned that nervousness, anxiety, or fatigue can trigger spasms in the eyes, face, and mouth.

As I continued my researched, I found that tics can be diagnosed as Tic Syndrome and/or Tourettes Syndrome. This neuromuscular disorder manifests in numerous ways. Symptoms may include muscular or vocal tics in children and adults. A child may experience uncontrollable eye-blinking, lip-licking, or vocal noises. Even adults may shrug their shoulders or kick each leg in a repetitive pattern. Tic Syndrome can affect any part of the body and ranges from mild to complex cases.

Treatment will vary depending on the severity of symptoms. Mild cases resolve over time with proper sleep and a balanced life. Severe Tic Syndrome and Tourettes Syndrome may require medication and behavior therapy as prescribed by a provider or specialist. All cases should be reported to your provider to facilitate the best intervention and prevention of worsening symptoms. As with most conditions, it is a good idea to eat a well-balanced diet, exercise regularly, and get the appropriate rest. Get regular checkups, report any changes in your health to a provider, and do not forget to pray always.

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Heroic Gardens - Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
25 May
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Helping Veterans Experience the Healing Power of Nature

By: Rebecca Hummer of Pura Vida Yoga & Physical Training in Maryland

What’s Social Therapeutic Horticulture?
Social and therapeutic horticulture is the process of using plants and gardens to improve physical and mental health, as well as communication and thinking skills.

OK, so why plants? Did you know…
It’s scientifically proven that working with plants has the ability to reduce symptoms related to stress and anxiety, depression and PTSD? Plants can also help to increase your bone strength, cognitive skills, self-esteem and confidence! Heroic Gardens is an amazing group doing amazing things when it comes to this! Let’s get the word out!!

The Mission of Heroic Gardens.
They are a mental health organization that is dedicated solely to veterans. Their goal is to introduce and surround veterans with horticulture as a form of personal healing. Not everything has to be treated with a pill! Plants. They surround us. They’re in our food, in the clothes we wear, in the medication we take and even in the buildings around us. Plants are an integral part of all of us. Their team is a group of amateur and professional gardeners that believes in the power of plants. They also have military ties and a sense of responsibility when it comes to serving those that have served our country for generations. They work with small groups to bring thoughtful plant based activities to veterans in order to help them reduce stress and increase confidence. Their organization operates year round. They can help a veteran build an indoor garden, all they need to bring is their imagination.

The Program.
They offer plant based classes that follow a Whole Health model focusing on the important things in life, like Relationships, Nutrition and Movement. The one hour long sessions guarantee a few things: You will socialize, you will smile, you will create, you may even surprise yourself with just how much you have connected to a plant and to yourself.

Who They Serve.
Not only do they offer this program for veterans, but they also offer it for caregivers and family members. Please reach out to learn where and when these classes are scheduled. They want to help you connect with your plant family!

The Possibilities.
They don’t just meet inside… in the seasonal weather, they teach tree tending, raised bed vegetable, herb and pollinator gardening. They even build and deliver the beds on location.
If you’re interested in getting involved, donating to this important programming and learning about upcoming activities email them: plantlove@heroicgardens.org

Join the Virtual Garden:
www.heroicgardens.org/virtualgarden

They meet monthly. All you need is a computer or phone with a wireless connection, a sense of wonder, and of course humor. They’ll do the rest. If you’re a veteran who lives in the US and wants to connect with other veterans who believe in the positive impact of plants, you’re in the right place. Classes meet the first Sunday of each month at 6pm unless otherwise notified. If you register after the 20th of the month, you will automatically be enrolled in the following month. Each month, you’ll get a package in the mail with an activity that you’ll unpack together as a team. If a veteran has a windowsill, they can grow anything. They’re bringing the healing power of plants to veterans in the comfort and safety of their own homes. I (Rebecca) am honored myself to be participating in this group. It’s true as they say… “there’s something about putting your hands in the dirt and seeing something grow from small”.

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Todd Hurt - Veterans Outreach Ministries - Delaware
18 May
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Veteran of the Quarter – Todd Hurt

This article features Todd Hurt of the U.S. Air Force

Time in Service
February 2003 – February 2007

Air Force Specialty Code (Job Code)
1C6 Space Systems Operator

Completed Air Force Basic Military Training
Lackland AFB, San Antonio, Texas

Completed Air Force Technical School
Vandenberg AFB, California

1st Duty Assignment
20th Space Control Squadron, Eglin AFB

Mission: Worked as a Space Console Operator in a Phased Array Radar to conduct near earth and deep space tracking, space object identification, and characterization to provide targetable intelligence in support of the space domain awareness mission.

Completed Air Force Technical School
Vandenberg AFT, California (again)

2nd Duty Assignment
6th Space Warning Squadron, Cape Cod Air Station, Sagamore, Massachusetts

Mission: As a Space Console Operator and then Crew Chief, operated the early warning radar Pave PAWS (phased array warning system). Provided accurate and timely missile warning data to U.S. and allied decision makers for the safety and security of North America, and tracked Earth orbiting objects, including high interest items such as the International Space Station, any object that deviates from its known orbit, or any new satellite object.

Worked in the Training Shop to provide monthly on the job training to ensure proficiency of Airmen, creating and delivering simulation scenarios. Then moved to the Standards and Evaluations Office which evaluated personnel quarterly to determine job qualifying status with simulation scenarios.

Also was a member of the Air Force Honor Guard with 6th Space Warning Squadron. Rendered military honors to families of former service members during funeral services and represented the Air Force during public events such as parades and sporting events.

Honors

  • 2x Airman of the Quarter
  • 2x Crew of the Quarter
  • Senior Airman Below the Zone (a one-time promotion consideration afforded to Airmen who show exceptional performance and carry out duties at a level above their current rank)
  • Selected to be lead trainer of 6th Space Warning Squadron’s Guardian Challenge representatives, a best of the best competition of Space Command.

Why I joined:
I was a little lost. College just wasn’t for me at the time. I worked jobs that just weren’t making me happy. Finally, my dad, who noticed I was just going through the motions every day, said to me “You know, the military is option for you. However, you’re only joining the Air Force”. He was a former Army service member who knew the Air Force would be the right fit for me. It gave me a purpose and allowed me to travel the country. But most importantly it gave me a feeling of patriotism, that I was doing this for my country and everyone in it.

Me Now:
Military is still a part of my life even though I stopped actively serving. I spent 13 years as a contractor at the Aberdeen Test Center as a metrologist. Utilizing all types of measurement tools to provide accurate data on all sorts of military testing objects and tests.

I utilized my Montgomery G.I. Bill which I gained by being in the military and was able to first get an Associates Degree in Business Management from Cecil College and then a Bachelors in Business Administration from University of Maryland University College. I’ve since transitioned to the civilian side of the government as a Program Analyst on Aberdeen Proving Ground. This allows me the freedom to telework and be with my family more often than not. I couldn’t be happier.

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