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Reflect, Renew, Refuel - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
30 Dec
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Reflect, Renew, Refuel

Reflect, Renew, Refuel - Veteran's Outreach MinistriesBy: Rebecca Rondone
Owner of Pura Vida Yoga & Physical Training

Our relationships are often govern by stories of how we think a friendship, partnership, or family should be. There are very strong stories in our society around the dynamics of a relationship. Take some time today to sit with your truth in relationships. What do you truly desire? What is your heart asking?

Our most vital relationship is the one with ourself. This is where it all begins. Cultivate your relationship to yourself as if you are tending a precious rose garden or growing a Refreshing Coconut. How much sunlight do you need, how much water and nourishment, what needs to be pruned in order to encourage new vibrant blooms? What needs to be let go to grow wild and free without barriers? What requires set boundaries?

Let’s review Boundaries. If needed they do work because YOU choose them. A boundary tells you when to stop. It reminds you where you are. And shows you where you are not. Boundaries can be physical. Even in yoga. A wall. A strap. A block. A chair. But boundaries are also something you APPLY to your practice and your relationships.

Boundaries of TIME.
Boundaries of FREQUENCY.
Boundaries of what is USEFUL today.

The boundaries of a strap, a wall, a yoga block do not LIMIT you. That is like saying a pen and paper limit your writing. Boundaries give you structure…so you can get something DONE. The boundaries we place on our practice and relationships…are choices.

We choose
Where to stop,
Where to start,
Where we draw the line.

Boundaries both physical (as in props) and chosen (as in timing, duration, specific recipes and sequences), and relationships:

GIVE you freedom.
Because YOU chose them.
Truth.

May we all tend to our own gardens, with our own set boundaries, cultivate our own unique blooms, and come together in relationship with harmony truth and love.

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Jesus Told Us To Not Be Fearful - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
24 Dec
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Jesus Told Us To Not Be Fearful

By Pastor Scott Stevens, Character Coach FCA

In the book of Luke 12: 25-26 Jesus spoke to his disciples and said to them “Who of you by worrying [or being fearful] can add a single hour a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry [or be fearful] …” We live in a world of uncertainty, yet we live and trust in a God that is full of certainty and love. Jesus gives us hope, in times of trouble and when we are feeling like the are no answers. He becomes the truth.

Jesus shared many promises to believers that He would give us peace when we put our trust in Him. In the Gospel of John chapter 14:27 Jesus says “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give you as the world gives. Do not let your heart be troubled and do not be afraid.” Fear, Stress, and Worry are the results if we rely on in our own wisdom, but Peace, Love, and Comfort are the promises when we trust in God.

The media, worldly leaders and newspapers are full of distractions and half-truths. God said He would “Never leave us or forsake us.” And HE is “the way the truth and the life.” So, in who’s trust, or report will you believe in? The world or in Jesus? When the world is the only hope you trust in, then one’s life is filled with distractions, confusion and doubt. Jesus knew that we would need help in this life, so

He stepped out of heaven to walk with us and felt our hurts and pains. Then he laid down His life for us so we could live with him in eternity. In the book of Psalms 56:3 it is promised that when you are afraid, worried or stressed, you should put your trust in God. For in Him there is strength, in Him there is hope and in Him we find rest for our weary souls. Believers and those who are able to hear the voice of God, let us “seek the LORD your God… with all your heart and with all your soul.” Deuteronomy 4:29

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Thanking you for Doanting AMC Insurance Agency - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
22 Dec
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Thank You for Donating!

Thank you to Donegal Insurance Group and ACM Insurance Agency, Inc.

….for your wonderful donation to our organization. You’re truly a blessing and we appreciate your support during this season of giving. Merry Christmas to all and remember the saying ‘Christmas is coming, the goose is getting fat, please put a penny in the Old Man’s hat, if you haven’t got a penny, a half penny will do, if you haven’t got a half penny – God Bless You’. Thank you again! ❤ ❤ ❤

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Thoughts & Costs of Sin - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
20 Dec
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Thoughts & Costs of Sin

By Debbie DiVirgillo* of the Faith Based Non-Profit Resource Center.
*Shared with her permission

I have been thinking and reading about sin this week. Not a topic we usually like to think about, but it’s a reality, right? As I think about sin, I realize that most of my sin is never seen by other people… you may be the same. Perhaps you have been a believer for a long time and you are not tempted to do the really bad things in life.

But, maybe my sins that no one sees are even worse… because they are sins of the heart, thoughts and feelings I have hidden in my heart. And, in many cases have even been able to justify… well, because you know, its just not my fault. So, here are some thoughts.

Sin is a matter of the whole person. Every part of us is sinful, even those parts that we think are ok. That doesn’t mean that we engage in every sinful act possible, or that we don’t have moments of virtue.

Sometimes our sinful nature is covered by smiles, gentleness and grace. But, under this false veneer lies a heart that is not free of sin. Landon Gilkey spent time in a Japanese prison camp and discovered this truth. He had been raised in a good home with kind, generous people. But, while in the prison camp, he saw a different side of human nature.

In this environment, with space at a premium, he saw just how the human heart actually operates. To make things as equal for everyone as possible, each person was given the same allotment of space. Gilkey was in charge of housing (space) assignments. Some of the other prisoners came to him with elaborate stories about why they needed more space than others.

Others moved their beds a fraction of an inch every night to gain a bit more space. Even the Christian missionaries were involved in moving their beds.

Because of our sin, we might think we are doing things for the right reason, but there are wrong motives in everything we do. These wrong motives may include pride, a sense of entitlement, guilt or our own self-interests. These can be very hard to figure out and eliminate.

It is possible that the good acts we do are not out of our love for God, but for some other reason. As a nonprofit or ministry leader, these thoughts may be challenging. We may feel that we are serving, giving and caring out of the goodness of our hearts. But, perhaps, we need to look deeper and as we are told in Psalm 139:23-24, “Search me God and know my heart….see if there is any offensive way in me.”

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Chicken Corn Chowder Recipe - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
16 Dec
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Recipe: Chicken Corn Chowder

Chicken Corn Chowder shared from Taste of Home

MAKES:
4 Servings

TOTAL TIME:
30 minutes

INGREDIENTS:

  • 1 small onion, finely chopped
  • 1 celery rib, finely chopped
  • 1 small sweet red pepper, finely chopped
  • 2 cans (14-3/4 ounces each) cream-style corn
  • 1-1/2 cups chopped cooked chicken
  • 1 can (12 ounces) reduced-fat evaporated milk
  • 1 teaspoon chicken bouillon granules
  • 1/2 teaspoon pepper
  • 8 bacon strips, cooked and crumbled

INSTRUCTIONS:

  1. In a large saucepan, heat butter over medium-high heat. Add onion, celery and red pepper; cook and stir 6-8 minutes or until tender.
  2. Stir in corn, chicken, milk, bouillon and pepper; heat through, stirring occasionally (do not boil). Top servings with bacon.

INGREDIENTS – FOR VEGAN VERSION!

  • Use margarine (not butter)
  • Use Plant Based Chicken by Deliciou brand
  • Use Evaporated coconut milk
  • Use Vegetarian* ‘Better Than Bouillion’
  • Leave off the bacon

INSTRUCTIONS – FOR VEGAN VERSION!

  1. Same as above (using margarine instead).
  2. Stir in corn, plant-based chicken, evaporated coconut milk, vegetarian bouillon and pepper; heat through, stirring occasionally (do not boil).

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Be There: Female Veterans and Suicide Awareness - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
12 Dec
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Be There: Female Veterans and Suicide Awareness

An Article by Lishamarie Hunter

As we all are preparing for the holidays knowing that many of our traditional holiday festivities changed this year, due to the current health crisis. Many of our veterans are feeling even more isolated and stressed. It’s easy to get wrapped up in the commercials and the smiles surrounding the holiday season. Movies, retail outlets and commercial all showing the joyful loving family surrounding this season. The holiday season can be filled with dreadful many of our veterans: No, family, no friends and no social support network.

Women are the fastest growing population with in the military and veteran community. Theyare currently serving in all career fields throughout our military. They strive to fit in and belong. For many this is a challenge, males are still the majority of the force. Many females serve their enlistment and decide to get out. As highly trained and fully capable they return to the civil population still trying to fit in. This transition period can be even more challenging. Many experienced trauma within the tenure and feel disconnected from their communities. Many civilians don’t understand the life of a service member, especially women. Their handshakes are firmer, their language is too direct, and this makes others uncomfortable as sometimes unwelcome.

The conversations are strained and uncomfortable because they don’t have the point of references as their non-military female counterparts. When trying to connect with veteran organization most of whom are male dominated, there is no childcare provided. This is a problem as most women are the care provider for their families, which many are single mothers.

They normally aren’t even identified or acknowledged as being a veteran. This creates a leadership challenge for many organizations. They provide services and programs for males, but must also make them effective for females. Many females have experienced trauma (Military Sexual Trauma) and aren’t comfortable in a mixed gender support groups.  All these little things add up to quite a bit for someone who has served and sacrificed, only to return and be invisible. It’s been report that suicides among female veterans have increased 85% in recent years. What is the reason for this spike?

Military experience for women is different than males. So, upon leaving the military women’s transitions need to be different. Transitioning from military to civilian can be difficult. If this transition doesn’t go well for females they are nearly 250% more likely to kill themselves than their civilian female counterpart.

Males are more likely to kill themselves than their civilian counterparts but only at a 18% higher rate. The VA reports that a high number of suicides happen in the first days, weeks, and months after a veteran leaves the military. Some believe that moving from a regimented military lifestyle back into the civilian world makes veterans feel disconnected, perhaps a lack of belonging. The fact that many in military don’t ask for help or don’t even know how to ask fro that assistance, makes providing support and assistances almost impossible. You can’t help someone if you don’t know what they need.

An important factor for a healthy lifestyle is a human connection. This connection is especially important to women who have gotten out of the military. The VA data shows that women who receive care are less likely to commit suicide. Their data also shows that out of the 22 veterans that commit suicide a day, 14 were not receiving any VA care. The VA has implemented a number of programs and resources for female veterans; ever VA medical center has a designated Women Veterans Program Manger, Designated Women’s Health provider and a Women Veterans Call Center.

What are some of the warning signs of a veteran in crisis?

  • Appearing sad or depressed most of the time.
  • Feeling trapped with no way to escape.
  • A feeling of anxiety, having mood swings and sleeplessness.
  • They may say things like “I have no reason to live, or who would miss me.”
  • Lose of interest in their hobbies, family work, or things they enjoyed.
  • You may notice increased use of alcohol or drugs.
  • They may give away their prized possessions.
  • There are several behavior that require immediate action.
  • Thinking or talking about killing themselves or hurting themselves.
  • They start to look for way to take their life.
  • They engage in self destructive behavior.

What can we do?

  • Get help! Call the Veterans Crisis Hotline 1-800-273-8255 Press 1.
  • Stay with them, don’t leave them alone.
  • Let them know they are not alone.
  • Follow up with them, “I will call you in one hour please answer the phone”, then call.
  • Take them to the emergency room.

Be aware that the holidays are stressful but most suicides don’t happen during the holidays they happen after the holidays when all the gatherings and phone calls are no longer taking place and the isolation sets in. Reach out and stay connected with veterans in your life.

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Be Alert for Scammers - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
08 Dec
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Be Alert for Scammers

This is a Message from Delmarva Power posted Nov 2020. Several scams are taking place in our area. See more details listed below and tips to keep you safe.

Phony Invoices:

Scammers are posing as third party suppliers and sending phony e-mails to some customers. The e-mail asks you to click on a link contained within the message. It is suspected that by clicking this link that your computer could become infected with a virus or malware. We ask our customers to pay their bill only by visiting delmarva.com, using our mobile app. or by mailing the hard copy of the remittance portion of the invoice.

Reloadable Debit Cards:

Scammers are asking targeted customers to tell them that their account is delinquent and that their service will be shut off for non-payment unless they purchase a reloadable debit card for a specific amount from a local retail store. (Reloadable debit cards in themselves are legitimate products when used properly). Victims are then instructed to call the scammer’s telephone number with their debit card’s account number and unique number. Once the scammer obtains the card’s identifying information, the value is then downloaded; Swept and stolen without a trace.

Delmarva Power representatives will never ask or require a customer with a past due balance to purchase a prepaid debit card to avoid disconnection. Business customers also are being told to use this method to make payment of about $500.00 to have a new meter installed. Scammers tell customers that the state has mandated these meter changes. THIS IS NOT TRUE.

Always Use Caution:

Many companies, including Delmarva Power, contact customers in person or via phone for various reasons. If someone contacting you claims to represent Delmarva Power, it is important that you take precautions to verify that the person is actually affiliated with the company, especially if that person is requesting an immediate monetary payment. When addressing past due accounts, we always offer multiple payment options.

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Delaware State Parks is Hiring Veterans - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
28 Oct
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Delaware State Parks is HIRING VETERANS!

Delaware State Parks is HIRING VETERANS!

Now accepting applications for the Delaware State Parks Veterans Conservation Corps. This is an exciting opportunity in an award-winning job skills and training program for Veterans. Learn skills and gain certifications that will assist you in gaining employment in the natural resources field. Perfect opportunity for military veterans, recently retired veterans, active guard and reserve members.
They are hiring Team Leaders and Team Members. Slots are limited and fill quickly. Program starts December 1, 2020 and ends October 31, 2021.
 

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Freedom Hills Therapeutic Riding - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
04 Sep
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Business of the Quarter – Freedom Hills Therapeutic Riding

Article Written by our Business of the Quarter, Freedom Hills Therapeutic Riding
Renee S. Dixon
– Executive Director
www.freedomhills.org

Freedom Hills Therapeutic Riding Program a Premier Center for Professional Association for Therapeutic Horsemanship as well as a Maryland Horse Discovery Center, offers Equine Facilitated Therapy to people who happen to have mental, physical and or emotional difficulties including Military Veterans, active Military and “Kids at Risk”. Our youngest student was 18 months old when he started. Our oldest student was 99 years old when he graduated.
We were the second program in the United States to offer Equine Facilitated Therapy Military Veterans. The Military Veterans come from the Elkton Vet center and the Aberdeen Vet Center as well as individually.

The “Kids at Risk” come from WINN Family Services, Perryville Outreach as well as individually. Many of these organizations serve people in both Cecil and Harford County.

Our Mentally Challenged population come from Bay Side Community as well as individually. We serve approximately 300 students per year.

In 2017 we started an Animal Education Program where we go into the school system with a miniature horse, a miniature donkey, a bunny, some chickens and two ducks. We also take this program to fairs to teach children about animals.
We are proud to be a Maryland Farm Based Education Center where we encourage schools to bring children out to the farm to increase the children’s interest in learning. We also helped write the curriculum for “Maryland’s Equine Farm Based Education”.

The only time an individual with a disability is turned away is if their doctor will not allow them to ride. However, in those cases we offer Natural Horsemanship which is groundwork and the person does not need to ride a horse.
We invite you and your colleagues to come out and visit Freedom Hills Therapeutic Riding Program so you can experience firsthand the joy and healing horses offer people.

A VOM representative, Tom Hogate, visited this excellent facility and was given a tour of the facilities.

When I interviewed a female veteran that has had many adversities to overcome. Her name was Cecelia Kress, an Air Force Veteran. She talked about her disabilities and how the Freedom Hills Therapeutic Riding Program helped her to overcome them. The tour, including the horse barns, training room, and the arenas were very well cared for and all the associates were actively busy. The days are long and very productive according to Renee.

I was impressed and the associates were very helpful when asked about the facility and what they were doing.

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Brain Injury Research - Veteran's Outreach Ministries
04 Sep
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Females Underrepresented in Brain Injury Research

An Article by Lishamarie Hunter

Women are taking on more combat roles in today’s Armed Forces. With those more demanding positions they are experiencing an increase in Traumatic Brain Injuries. Service members sustain Traumatic Brain Injuries (TBI) during their day to day activities, training and deployments. Most are considered minor TBI/concussions. Data suggests that over the last 18 years the armed forces has sustained over 383,947 TBIs. The various classification are penetrating (5,215), severe (4,067), moderate (37,424), Mild (315,897), and not classified (21,344).

Out of the various branches the Army has had the majority of injuries. (12 Aug 2020). The different categories of TBI are as follows: Penetrating TBI occurs when an object pierces the skull and enters the brain tissue. Moderate TBI is caused when the brain moves within the skull and collides with the bone, often times referred as shaken baby syndrome, This occurs when the brain bangs back and forth against the skull. Symptoms from the TBI are but not limited to: Loss of consciousness, state of confusion, loss of memory, and feeling dazed (2020).

The differences between woman and men are not only emotional but physiological. Trauma between the two genders are experienced differently, and have very different effects on effects and recovery. While the reality is there needs to be much more research done on how women react, respond and recover from these traumas, in particular concussions or traumatic brain injuries, also know as TBI’s. It was during the research that scientists found that the data was skewed because they lacked information that specific to gender. During the research process they learned that 95 percent of the data collected were from male service members. When researchers paired 49 males and female service members, they noticed that sex does have more effects on TBI, and women were affected more cognitively from the trauma to the brain (11 August 2020).

What role does gender play in brain injuries? Woman are more likely to report a head injury. Woman’s necks are not as strong as a male’s neck, which would account for a moderate brain injury. Women’s symptom sometime look like another illness vomiting, nausea, headache, or drowsiness (August, 2020). They found that women sustained more work related concussions, with more severe symptoms and a longer recovery period than their male counterparts. Men were more aggressive after a head injury, and women were more likely to die from it.

Why is this? Women are not educated about brain injuries, they are unprepared for the time it take to completely recovery from the injuries. Equipment does not usually fit well, helmets are typically too large for their heads. The research data has prompted the military to develop more form fitted equipment for females serving our Armed Forces.

The Pink Concussion Organization is very pro active in the prevention, research and recovery of TBI’s. This group is affiliated with the Veterans Affairs. They are funded by donations. This organization has made great stride in providing information on the major research and its outcome in the Traumatic Brian Injury Field of medicine, and provide a number of educational presentation to present the latest findings.

References
Colantonio, A. Ph.D, and Mollayeva, T. M.D. Ph.D. 2019. Sex, Gender, and Traumatic Brain Injury: Implications for Better Science and Practice. PinkConcussion.com Retrieved: 10 August 2020.
U.S, Department of Defense, (2018) How many Service Members Have Sustained a TBI? Retrieved: 10 August 2020.
Walter, Kenny, 20 February 2020. Females Underrepresented in Traumatic Brain Injury Studies. Retrieved: 11 August 2020.

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